How to get inspired to cook for someone you love?

Well, I've always enjoy cooking from a very young age. It....relaxes me. B/c in my mind I am creating something that can or can not be good. The best of all you can eat it so you know you want to make it good. And now....that I'm married with children, I would especially want to make sure every dish I'm preparing for them are as heathly, fresh and most important delicious as possible.